Flirting With A Woman – 10 Tips
Building Sexual Chemistry with a Woman
Always have something new to say. Sweet talking isn’t for the inhibited or faint of heart. For it to have its full and desired effect it must come from the spirit of true passion. If you’re not with a woman who greatly excites you sexually than finding the right words to flow with aren’t going to be available to you. You see it’s about speaking to the woman with your spirit and your body. The master seducers aren’t the scum that we’ve been led to believe. They are men who are slaves to their desires; slaves to beauty. They love all women, not just one and in our culture this is synonymous with immorality or at best amorality. As a practicing womanizer you’re the man who creates his own moral code.
To sweet talk a woman is far more art than science which is why I reiterate it must come from your spirit. Tap into the spirit of lust. The Greek god Eros resides here. Be honest with her. Let her fantasize about your sensuous words. Take her to heaven with your words. Have you ever watched an old movie from the 50s, 60s or even the 70s? For example watch “The 10 Commandments” and pay close attention to Moses from the beginning up to when he came into contact with God. Pay attention to the way he interacts with women. His words are pure poetry to the women in his life. He dominates and controls women with his words. This is a characteristic of sweet talk. Obviously you don’t want to sound like a Shakespeare ripoff. By all means adapt to the times.
The idea is not to come off as a man who is weak as a conversationalist because before you know it you’ll be just another lame man falling into the “friend’s” category. You’ll be no different than her sister or close girlfriend in the sex department. It just won’t happen.
Now here a few tips to get you going with your sweet talk.
1. Maintain strong eye-contact in person. Strong eye contact during a conversation with a woman shows you’re both confident and ready for intimacy. Don’t stare like some rapist. Look deep into her soul like a supremely confident seducer.
2. Deeping your voice. Not too deep though. Unless you’re James Earl Jones and your voice is naturally that deep you don’t want to get too far out of your persona. A better way to say this is to be your true sexual self.
3. Genuine Flattery. As I’ve mentioned your words must be real to have any appeal. When you flatter a woman you want to compliment the parts of her body, soul or mind that you deeply appreciate. For example if you love how soft her body feels, tell her about it. Be sure to make the words sound truly poetic and touch her sensually where you’re complimenting. Do not be afraid to touch her and look at her body. You’re mind-fucking her.
4. Be fun. This is the overall idea to keep in mind. Remember that for most people life is very boring and repetitive. If you’re the man that brightens up her day and she can forget her troubles with you than you’re a fun guy to her.
Don’t be afraid to smile especially if you have a great smile. You don’t want to smile too often, but you do want to smile occasionally. Master the art of timing with a smile. Just be that fun guy that makes her day and always remember fun leads to more fun.
5. Insinuate. Learn to insinuate when sweet talking. Women can be very perceptive and don’t necessarily need to have everything spelled out for them. Drop a few slick comments in once you establish rapport and let her read between the lines. This is part of the game we play.
Remember some women prefer straightforwardness. You can usually tell if she seems impatient or is very serious while conversing with you. If you find yourself conversing with this type of women, curb your sweet-talk a bit and make your approach more no-nonsense. This type of woman is a cynical/realist unlike the more romantic variety. She expects that men are after nothing more than “A roll in the hay” and chances are if she is physically attracted or appreciates your candor then you’re probably in. Proceed to the finish line.
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